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The enevitable has come between their mom and I. Its gonna be pretty rough on them.
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Chuck 1992 Calypso Green Mustang notch 1995 Mustang GT 2004 Explorer Limited A veteran is someone who, at one point in one's life, wrote a blank check made payable to 'The United States of America', for an amount of 'up to and including my life'. That is honor, and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it. -Author Unknown |
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Kids can be quite resilient, Chuck. Remember the old advice to make sure they know it's not their fault. But even more, make a pact with your Wife to not play any kind of "blame game" with them. It is SO easy to use children this way, to try to get them "on your side". We're going through that right now with a family member and it's just terrible. Children should not have to "take sides". It's OK for them to love both of you - equally.
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Thoughts and prayers sent from SD
Lars
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Chuck 1992 Calypso Green Mustang notch 1995 Mustang GT 2004 Explorer Limited A veteran is someone who, at one point in one's life, wrote a blank check made payable to 'The United States of America', for an amount of 'up to and including my life'. That is honor, and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it. -Author Unknown |
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Sorry to hear about all that Chuck. Some people, for one reason of another have to get involved with playing the children against one side or the other. Children are smarter than they think, and in time, they often see things as they are. It's just wrong that adults have to stoop so low.
I think if they truly had the childrens well being at heart, they'd not do that, and reassure them that it in no way is it because of them and just be there to support them without taking sides. Having gone through divorce with my parents, what meant a lot to me was that despite my dad not being there anymore, he made time to do the things that I wanted to do...even if he didn't. It showed that I mattered. I'll certainly keep your situation in mind.
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Been there done that in 2007. Their mom ran away with her boyfriend to MN left me raising two little ones on my own (9 & 4). It is a struggle but I tell them I love them and so does their mom.
They will sort out the truth on their own based on our actions. I reccommend a GOOD counselor for both your kids. Best investment I ever made. Keep your chin up. Send me a PM if ya need to talk
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Thanks for the talk Jack.
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Chuck 1992 Calypso Green Mustang notch 1995 Mustang GT 2004 Explorer Limited A veteran is someone who, at one point in one's life, wrote a blank check made payable to 'The United States of America', for an amount of 'up to and including my life'. That is honor, and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it. -Author Unknown |
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You're most welcome! Hang in there Brother! Things ultimately sort themselves out.
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Well the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children are involved now and they are assisting me. It has not been a good week and a half but at least I have all my documentation in order.
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Chuck 1992 Calypso Green Mustang notch 1995 Mustang GT 2004 Explorer Limited A veteran is someone who, at one point in one's life, wrote a blank check made payable to 'The United States of America', for an amount of 'up to and including my life'. That is honor, and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it. -Author Unknown |
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I did have a problem with the PD cause they didnt want to enter into the NCIC because they said it didnt meet the criteria. I finally got a call on Friday and I asked the officer why it didnt because of the orders I got from the judge. He called me back in 10 minutes and said she is getting entered in NCIC. The NCMEC called and are going to be making flyers and contacting the PA's office to push a warrant through. Sucks its got to be this way but nothing I can do.
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Chuck 1992 Calypso Green Mustang notch 1995 Mustang GT 2004 Explorer Limited A veteran is someone who, at one point in one's life, wrote a blank check made payable to 'The United States of America', for an amount of 'up to and including my life'. That is honor, and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it. -Author Unknown |
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