Ok so, I went through everything again tuesday night and still couldn't find anything.. Today, I decided I had listened to it long enough so I went straight to the service manager and after he rode with me he seems to think it is an inaccurate backlash in my gears and that there may be a gear that isn't in good shape causing too much clearance (shouldn't be any more than .015 he said). So, after pricing the fix to do it myself I am going to call and see what the ford place will charge to do it with a warranty so if it ever comes back it'll be on them to fix it. I'm praying that's the noise and hope it goes away.. I'll keep this thread informed so if anyone else discovers this they won't have to search and hunt like I have.. I just smiled when he said there is no way it's your trans!
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Fancy - 2005 Ford F-150 Crew 5.4 Lariat with Banks Ram Air Intake, Custom Flowmaster (hidden) Exhaust, 2.5'' Daystar Leveling Kit, Red Top Optima, and a (eager to be updated to Gryphon) Edge Evolution Programmer. Plus many custom appearance mods..