If you haven't ordered already I'd go with 4.56s
How often will you be up in the higher rpms running sprints to 100mph+ with 35s it is not the safest idea
I believe there is a company that makes 4.30's but only the rear set last I checked.
going to 4.10s from 3.73s is NOT worth the amount of money you are going to spend. Do it once and do it right, 4.56s!