So here is what I have figured out. I also plan on plugging my pos+ for the LED to my dimmer switch so I am able to dim them at night. If I cannot do that, I will install my own dimmer dial. I will have to trial and error what lights are to what position before I mount them, but it wont be that bad.
I got the relays at the junk yard for under $7.00 total. They are all the same Ford part number and should work fine. I have them wired so when power is eliminated, (the switch is in that position), the power will be allowed to the LED, thus turning it on.