NEW GRYPHON/FICM RELAY LOCATION/PROGRAMMING

[samurai!!]

Gryphon with rollback arrived
the instructions enclosed did not represent my truck relay config.
2004 psd.
2 relay boxes - 1box w/2 relays both black and both parallel with engine [ fore/aft position] neither is closer to engine as suggested with instructions.

larger box-3 lg relays [one grey] with i smaller relay and 1 fuse.
Grey relay located closest to cab and on the inside[engine] side of box.

Is the grey relay in the position expected -for it to be the FICM power?

Additionally in preparation for an install I put PEGASUS on a laptop/w/win7
it installed but did not have any information inside- is this to be expected?
I want to be as prepared as possible before calling for an appointment.
thanks for your assist.

[Jeremy]

It sounds like the gray one is the one you are after. The FICM relay is slightly different from the rest, it has one leg that is much larger than the rest, and one cornor on the top usually has a little notch out of the cornor.